It's inevitable. People are going to push your buttons leaving you frustrated and angry As a leader, how you respond matters greatly.
In his section on spiritual gifts in Romans 12, the apostle Paul wrote, "Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them" (Romans 12:14). I believe it especially applies to leaders. And to the church in Ephesus, "Be angry but do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger" (Ephesians 4:26).
The next time you get angry as a leader, find a way to use it constructively.